Our conversation today, after I took her doll house away for the 2nd day in a row:
L: I want a new mommy.
M: Why do you want a new mommy? (trying to not be hurt by a 3yr old)
L: Because you are not nice and put me in timeout all the time & take away my doll house (I should state for the record she is not in timeout all the time just 1-2 times a week, maybe)
M: Mommy does that to teach you a lesson, not to be mean.
L: Well, I want Sydney's mom and you can have Sydney.
M: I don't want Sydney, I want you.
L: I want Sydney's mommy because she is nice.
M: Mommy LOVES Lawson and only wants Lawson and you are making me very sad talking this way.
L: (after thinking about it for awhile) Well, you can keep me but don't talk to me for the rest of the day. I am having a bad day!!
What am I to do with that???? Just as soon as I think things are turning the corner (the terrible 3s are over) we hit a wall straight on!! Today in fact she has lost her dollhouse (again) and will not be seeing her dolls for quite some time. Why, because I am mean and take pleasure in taking away things she loves???
No, because we are having BIG issues listening. She doesn't listen to her pre-school teacher, me or her dance teacher. She seems to be in her own little world. The amazing part to me is when we talk about not listening she will say "Mommy, I think I need to read Howard B Wigglebottom Learns to Listen again"

Nope, I don't think that is the solution. I am thinking ears cleaned out, more restrictions, etc. Actually, I really don't know what the solution is. Just be consistent and keep moving forward. Anyone have any suggestions?